(For weirdness, that is.)
My father and step mother have been visiting – and what a visit it was! First off, we have had a goat living in the house with us and that (as Niek pointed out to me) is not normal. But they managed to make peace with the goat. Then it turns out they are both allergic to cats, and of course we have three. But I think the pièce de résistance was their final day here. I’d already promised to watch the three children of a friend of mine during her job interview. Then an aunt and uncle asked if they could come over for lunch because it had been decades since they’d seen my father. And then they called back that morning to say they hoped it was okay, but they’d also invited both my other aunts. So of course I called my mom and invited her, too. Everyone showed up an hour before they were due. Oh, my friend also showed up and stayed for an hour after her interview. And suddenly our last day together turned into a crazy party with seven children and ten adults … and the goat, who managed to escape into the living room more than once … and the dogs, including my mom’s Pomeranian … and the cats, who were polite enough to keep a fairly low profile. I have to say that my step mother is a very brave and gracious woman who managed to smile and be pleasant despite how weird it must have felt to be surrounded by her husband’s ex-wife’s family and a whole lot of kids she didn’t know, while shooing the goat away from her lunch. LOL! Gaby, if there was an award that recognized all these traits, you would certainly win it! I didn’t even try to take pictures of the chaos, but I did get some nice photos of our much quieter Father’s Day celebration. It was the first Father’s Day in about 37 years we’d spent together, so I tried to make it special.
Breakfast – above the table – was the usual weekend spread of fresh eggs, homemade bread, and lots of delicious goodness:

Below the table, things were decidedly not normal – Annie curled up on Niek’s feet for a cozy nap.
We enjoyed a leisurely morning and around noontime we headed for the surprise I’d arranged in Bar Harbor.
Before I spilled the beans about what exactly we’d be doing, we wandered up Main Street and enjoyed an ice cream while goofing around. Grandpa points out that he’s still taller than his oldest grandson:

And Niek managed to get a picture of Jim and I together:

Finally, we headed to the harbor … and to the gorgeous schooner, the Margaret Todd.

Niek was happy to help hoist the sails. It’s been too long since this sailor has been to sea! I think this moment was the high point of Niek’s Father’s Day.
And Jim had such a wonderful time with the kids!
And Gaby demonstrated impeccable accessorizing skills when she pulled out her nautical scarf!
There’s something about the sea that brings different emotions to the surface. We all felt that, in our own way.
We miss you and wish you were still here with us! XOXOXO from all of us!
































































