Oh my gosh, would you look what Heidi made me? This cowl is so soft and so warm … I’ll bet you five bucks that if Niek gets called away this winter on work, I will even sleep in it! (Hey, Heidi, is this machine washable? I should ask now, LOL!) Seriously, Heidi can do anything, and do it with flair. She quilts like nobody’s business. Her cooking is sublime. She can decorate rings around Martha. Her cross stitching is absolutely perfect. (And those are just the things I’ve experienced first hand!) But most importantly, Heidi has that rare ability to make you feel that you are the most special person on the planet. She has charm and grace and amazing manners; she’s empathetic, generous, and kind. Oh, and she has the handsomest cat you’ll probably ever meet.
I made something specially for her ages ago, but haven’t finish-finished it – I guess it’s time I did so! Heidi, thank you!
When I asked Niek to take a picture of me wearing this cowl, Arden insisted that I also take a picture of him with his daddy. Who’s a ham?
While I was drifting around cyberspace yesterday evening, I came across this nifty blog: 2012 Year of Smalls. I know, I’m so great at sticking to SALs and other scheduled stitching activities, right? Not. But hey, I can totally visualize the gorgeous array of meticulously stitched and finished smalls I’ll have at the end of the year … can’t you? Sigh … hope springs eternal.
Around Chateau Chaos, we are very appreciative of the warm weather that gives us (um, me) more time to get those pre-winter outdoor chores done (which is to say, putting up a new fence). November is a great month to reflect on all that we’re thankful for. I’ve loved the daily postings people have done various place, citing something for which they’re thankful each day. If only I were so … coordinated. Timely. Efficient. It’s come to my attention once again how thankful I am for my health – not to mention how necessary it is to do a little maintenance if I expect that good health to continue. I’m very thankful for these slow, dark November evenings when it seems we finally have enough time to spend together – to cuddle on the sofa, to watch a family movie together, or just to watch the kids whirl around and play. I’m thankful to be back in a place that feels like home to me, after living in so many different places for so many years. I’m thankful for our little farm behind the house, for our growing self-sufficiency and our closeness to nature and the joy to be found in doing simple, humble chores. Robert Frost, ever an evocative poet, wrote “Not yesterday I learned to know/The love of bare November days/Before the coming of the snow” in My November Guest. November used to be my least favorite month, when I last lived in Maine, but in the passing of the years I’ve come to embrace these long, dark evenings that give us time – and permission – to enjoy the quiet moments that our souls need in order to become replenished so we can rejoice when the days grow longer and the days become busy again.





November 16th, 2011 at 9:06 am
Wonderful post, Barbara!
November 16th, 2011 at 9:29 am
Wow, it’s a great cowl. It looks so comfy!! And Arden is soooo funny on these pictures…. Love the feeling of your post. I love November, for the reasons you just gave. Good luck with everything that needs to be done and enjoy the time together!!
November 16th, 2011 at 9:30 am
Beautiful! You are able to put to words feelings I have but could never describe.
November 16th, 2011 at 9:44 am
I love the cowl! Heidi is so talented. While I don’t like how gray and dark it gets here in the winter months, I do enjoy the hunker down and be with family aspect of the dark months. I just can’t believe how quickly time is passing! It seems like it was just June.
Good luck with the smalls SAL! I am going to try to do more seasonal stitching. Here’s hoping!
November 16th, 2011 at 9:56 am
Love the way Arden looks so angelic, but you suspect somehow that’s not quite the truth! LOL! Love the cozy cowl too!
November 16th, 2011 at 11:50 am
Awww isn’t Heidi the best? Gorgeous cowl and lovely pic of you and Arden. I don’t know who he looks like more – you or Niek?? Right, off to browse that smalls blog. x
November 16th, 2011 at 12:43 pm
Very cool cowl, kudos to Heidi!
November 16th, 2011 at 12:53 pm
The cowl looks like a great thing for winter in Maine!
And you are the one who trained Arden from an early age to pose every 30 seconds for your camera, so you can’t blame him for being a ham!
November 16th, 2011 at 1:12 pm
Beautiful cowl. Beautiful daughter. Thanks for sharing the photo.
November 16th, 2011 at 5:13 pm
Love your gift from Heidi – I think I would wear it all the time too!
I too like this time of year more as I grow older – I refer to it as my “settling in” time.
November 16th, 2011 at 8:16 pm
Wonderful words about this time of year.
The cowl is fabulous!
November 16th, 2011 at 9:24 pm
What a lovely cowl! And I can’t get over how grown up Arden is. That’s a great photo of him and his dad. See you soon I hope.
November 17th, 2011 at 1:09 am
The cowl is gorgeous. Arden is such a character.
November 19th, 2011 at 4:53 pm
This was eloquently written. I agree on many accounts. Happy Thanksgiving!
November 20th, 2011 at 11:36 am
Very nicely said.
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November 23rd, 2011 at 6:21 am
Blushing profusely.
I am glad you like the cowl. It ended up being my favorite one I made so far. Just put it up on your head as the cold wind blows and remember that I am thinking of you! Since I cannot give you a hug anymore in real life…I had to do something to give you a hug from long distance.
Hugs,
Heidi
November 23rd, 2011 at 4:51 pm
I feel all warm and fuzzy – thank you, Heidi!!
November 23rd, 2011 at 11:24 am
Heidi is my daughter and I am very proud of her. She has so many talents and is very giving. She loves making things for family and friends and gets joy from giving them. She linked your blog to me so I could see your cowl. With her living in Holland we talk daily on Skype so I knew she was making it. Keep warm.
Nancy
November 23rd, 2011 at 4:51 pm
Nancy, you have a true gem for a daughter – but I’m sure you knew that already! I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving!